The Thin Line Between Style and Sloppy... don't ever let yourself "GO"

I am a firm believer in dressing the way that you feel. My outfits all tell tales of how I'm feeling for the day. If I'm in jeans, a screen tee, and my combat boots, I'm saying that i'm comfortable yet still on my guard. If you see me wearing pearls, it because I'm actually feeling prissy. But what I CAN TOTALLY NOT STAND IS PEOPLE WHO JUST LOOK A FLAT OUT MESS JUST CAUSE!! Everyone doesn't put all their attention into how they look, and  that's fine, but when leaving your house, you should always make sure that you are still presentable. There is no excuse to just out right look a HOT MESS!! One thing that I hate the most is when people get comfortable in relationships, or get married and have kids and the wife/girlfriend decides not to care about getting her hair done anymore! Like, Forreal?! Do something with yourself! I'm not saying go pay 60$ every two weeks, cause we all can't do that, but even dollar tree has flat irons!
I don't want to sound like I'm bashing anyone for their preference in the up keep of their appearance, but everyone SHOULD take pride in their appearance. This doesn't mean you gotta go spend money on designer things and stuff, but just fix yourself up every once in a while. If not for someone else, do it for yourself. 1st impressions are everything, and so are 2nd and 3rd.. if you look like you just don't care about what you do to yourself, people are gonna think you're depressed of something. So get up and do something to yourself.. no matter what anybody says, appearance DOES MATTER..